Did I feel like a jerk and a failure on the days when I couldn't hang with the super stepmoms? Sure. But you can't base your days or family dynamics on other blended families or stepparents. It's okay to not have it figured out, it's the quitting that's bad. You have to ask yourself why God has put you where you are and how you can be used for good. There is a purpose to his plan, and you are more than capable.
You always hear people say "They say this, or They say that", and I often wonder who this they person is and how exactly they know so dang much! Truth is, I am a they and you are too. One of the biggest things "they say" is to write what you know...which according to my [...]